Now, my ex has called CPS, accusing me of telling my daughter to lie. My 15 year-old daughters facebook posts strongly suggest my ex and my daughter were smoking marijuana together and the photos do show my daughter smoking marijuana as well as showing freshly rolled joints. Even if I hate the man, I love him as their father. She has taken the court order and abused it telling the principle that she has sole decisions on all matters and can do what she ants in regards to the children without my consent. Since the children moved to AZ, i have taken up a job in MD. I was never aware or informed that the court date moved forward or anything! The couple must decide themselves in writing how all assets will be divided, who the child will live with, how co-parenting and visitation will work in the event the two decide not to renew their marriage when it expires. What if my ex has moved to a different state across the country and will not give me her phone #? ANY MOTHER WHO IS CUTTING OUT THE FATHER WHO WANTS TO BE IN THEIR CHILDS LIFE IS A BAD PARENT and that is psychologically proven and the Courts know this to be fact and if you prove it in Court (usually they do themselves) then the Court HAS TO PROTECT THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD. He said the gf also told him to stop but kept on and kept on. and can i be chargered as a runaway? I would love to take my kids with me, but the way he wants it, I cant go with or without my kids because I have to sit here in Texas with them waiting for him to pick them up Thursday???? when I picked my son up in June I found out from my son that he does not live with his father he is staying with his step Mom and he doesnt know where his father is. support out of both of us, She filed asking him to pay for support on that we were residents and he would need my permission in order to take our son That could happen to any parent. I have been informed that this can be considered dissolved immediately upon my request for the return of my child. Anyone that disagrees with that is selfish. It includes answers to questions like: What happens to debts in a divorce?, I'm separated: Can I date?, How are family pets handled?, When can I stop paying child support?, How is alimony decided? What can I do to get my visits and get my son back? We went to court for four years over and over again before she finally showed up. Like all contempt actions in Massachusetts, for a judge to find a Massachusetts defendant in contempt of a parenting order, the plaintiff must present " clear and convincing evidence of disobedience of a clear and unequivocal command .". As I said children can take it or leave it. Work fast, send certified letters, leave messages, record them, send texts, etc. The only thing we wouldnt agree on was the transportation and summer vacation but she got a court hearing without us being there and we received by mail the court order signed stating that my husband have to do all transportation . I called the sheriff in that county for help with a assist as I figured there would be problems, the det. Parenting Classes state that 60% of the fathers go away within the first two years; 75% of bankruptcies are filed within 2 years of a divorce/custody battle. But now he refuses for me to have any contact with himself. He filed a motion to find her in contempt, but the motion was denied stating that in his divorce decree it states that no motions can be heard in family court without first going through conciliation. My Sons father has a warrant for his arrest. Your children probably struggle with not being able to see their Father and they may not express this, but on the inside they are hurting because they miss their Dad. But I was I have known her since she was 17 and its been countless jail terms, 4 or 5 DUIs now, with 1 being with her children in the car. He is not considering what is best for her. So chose to fight away from them and never say negative things about the other parent infront of them. I have not signed custody over to my kids biological father either by the way. judges dont take kindly to a party that ignores a court order. childhood not bad not greatbut while reading my story aloud I was choking The commisioner we asked for help is the one who signed the warrant. Thanks to you for keeping the community active, for answering each other's questions, and for supporting MyFamilyLaw.com as a place for uniquely candid family law discussions. however if you do get the child i would file a motion ASAP and state the child resides with you at the time of filing and as for custody, state the living condition, and your reasons. can really solve your problem. We got a divorce a year ago and the stunts she has pulled are callus and careless. Florida Statute 787.03 governs parental kidnapping and interference with custodial rights. This will get the ball rolling in the right direction for his protection. I dont like to suggest any one lawyer, but in your case this group may be your best bet. I told him to take me to court that I do not care and I have no worries for I have sole custody of my first son and I do not let the father see him for he is Antisocial personality disorder and in prison. I dont know all the details of the case where I am sure that there is much more. If you admit it, apologize and offer make up time, paying for transport, etc. My daughter and her ex boy friend have a 1 1/2 year old child. 480-744-7711 or info@clgaz.com. This article has program flyers, rules of operations, and information about supervising visits in other languages.". NO MATTER WHAT, DONT GIVE UP! Kept him from me. I found out through my mother. Will it affect the court oder that exist? Her plan is to pack up with the kids and just leave one day when he is at work and not tell him anything. Melynda, I would also send it to the supervisor of the visitations. It is important to continue to file a motion for contempt of court every time there is parental interference. 509.070 Custodial interference. I surely will go and get the order. He is refusing stating I must continue to meet at the set location, drivnig the additional 2 and 1/2 hours on my own and I still must come two weekends a month, Do you think a judge will see my situation? I also got a PDF file and a trail of emails they admitted to everything. I know my 16 year old does not want to talk to me but, I know for a fact that my 10 year old would love to talk to me. Too many times if a parent cant or struggles with paying, the other parent wants to stop visitation and/or put them in jail. When i was awarded 2 weeks with my child she reported her mom for sexual abuse, i took my kid to the police station then child services took my child its been 4 years they wont allow me contact with my child and they want to take away my parental rights. Let me see if I understand. letting him fill an eport against me and talking me to jail for 26 hours. the sperm doner of my son is making it impossible to move, he has visitation, but he never comes anyways. PLEASE HELP!!! My exs attorney and I came to an agreement on custody and parenting time just a week ago. To know know them. Im a father of two girl. And my sons mother has already said if I take her to court shell just send him to Liberia. That would devastate any child. TAKE THIS VERY SERIOUSLY! The idea is that the other parent and family lose visitation rights, and it warrants a change in custody for kid napping reasons. Can i still be held in contempt. Could I be arrested if I keep my children longer than the divorce decree says if my ex wife and I had a verbal agreement for longer time but now she doesnt want to abide by it and I made plans. He has not seen the kids since July 08. My question is: I live in Az but my 2 boys live in Ga with there dad. I was told that its considered abandonment and that I should pick him up and due to safety concerns not release him to her if she shows up to my house to pick him up. A person also commits custodial interference by detaining the child . If they are over a certain age for your state the Judge may want to talk to the children. I have visitation rights, but he has made it difficult to see my daughter all along, and I have not been able to have even one overnight or weekend visit since he got custody. Not to mention this house is in Ohio and she didnt tell us she moved. It was all I could do to not go to that house and bury mom and her flavor of the month in the back yard. My ex husband n I are suppose to be in court this Thursday he got caught driving on suspended license n with drugs. I have been trying to get my son in a residential ranch or home for months after his second time in an inpatient rehab and once in outpatient, this is not a good situation; what can i do to help my son? The car seat is law, he has to get the right car seat or he will get a serious ticket that will cost a lot more than the proper car seat. My mother, since she doesnt see her grand kids as much (maybe once a year), agreed to have them for a few hours and they had a great time. I am a proud father of two beautiful girls (both younger than 6). What if the other parents family members are influencing them negatively? Since he is 17 you have to love him back not with force. My ex and his current wife have both been cited out of WA in 2008 for CUSTODIAL INTERFERENCE 2ND DEGREE. I am Mary Smith from the United States I (mom) have custody of my daughterher dad has visitation on the 1st, 3rd, 5th weekends. There is more traction in numbers. Please help, I feel like Im at a dead end. I went to the marital home several times in hopes to just talk person to person and maybe work something out but he was never there or wouldnt answer the door. Not once has the local court done a thing regarding the violations. The child is a boy, and his dad is his hero. One dirty diaper is not going to harm the child. I hope Ive helped. Expenses incurred by a lawful custodial parent or a parent enforcing a valid joint custody order in locating and regaining physical custody of the person taken, enticed or kept in violation of this section are "economic damages" for purposes of restitution under ORS 137.103 (Definitions for ORS 137.101 to 137.109) to 137.109 (Effect of . They cannot refuse you those records ESPECIALLY if you show them the black and white proof! The grandmother has filed motions to intervene that have been thrown out and even requested temporary custody (again this was thrown out) while waiting for a hearing this summer. PLEASE HELP How are we to protect our children if the laws are not enforced. I want to get her back what do i do. My daughter is forced to do chores all day while step mom sits on the computer, anyways. We are really worried but dont know what to do and its the long Easter weekend. what can i ask the judge to at our return hearing. My ex husband does not follow the court ordered custody that was changed by him in 2013 when he took me back to court on on false charges when him and his wife decided to state the person I had watching my daughter was irresponsible and left my daughter alone, They also stated my daughter and her son wete left alone cooking at 9/10 yrs old. We had court on Feb 9th, 2010 and the judge ruled that NJ had no jurisdiction since the children had been away for almost 6 months. You will put the parent on the drop-off/pick-up list at the school, give them the appropriate information and supplies for school, etc. After my Facebook message was intercepted my girlfriend and I began looking into contempt. He has held a loaded gun to my head once, and a knife to my throat once. He even told me that the opposing attorney, the judge, and even he thought I was crazy! The child has been hit and there were incidents reported and nothing was done. I PRAY YOU DONT HAVE KIDS. the non-custodial parent has court ordered visitation over the childs christmas break from school and the custodial wont send the child), what recourse does the non-custodial parent have? I have NOT heard from them since and its been 24 hours. Today my daughter is fully addicted to drugs, has no contact with me or her siblings. We make no warranties or guarantees about the accuracy, completeness, or adequacy of the information contained on this site or the information linked to on . Well her bday was 2 days ago and I asked if I could see her at least 5mins to take her balloons and so her brothers could see her too (since theyre not allowed at the visit at chat house) they havent seen her since June 2.. Well he refused to let me see her. Shes a lawyer with friends in high places in Mexico so how does my friend get her boy back? i dont know the laws here in nebraska. I finally found my son back in (b) Every person who, in violation of the visitation, parenting time, or custody time provisions . but thats just because hes being a D.I.C.K. He was awarded sole physical custody of our child with a Circuit court Judge taking my rights away. She has been visiting her dad for the last year in Hawaii. Me and the other parent went to the custodial parents house and it was deserted! (Franklin County) Thanks. 2.) They will turn to her and tell her that and if she has issue with the decision she will have to take it up in court. The child now does not want to go with me because she doesnt want to miss going to six flags or soccer games, or friends parties. She even has a convicted child molester for a father (his two boys grandfather) who she drops the children off to for day care!!!! We are experienced family law attorneys and will fight for you to obtain the best possible outcome in your situation. That he is not to leave.the.state. The other parent may be present, and they may have a lawyer present. 45-5-304. Those are my kids, im the father, why isnt there any laws to help me. If you would like to continue helping us improve Mass.gov, join our user panel to test new features for the site. what if is kate or what if he cant afford it?? My ex and I are currently 4 1/2 hours away from each other. Supervised visits were court ordered with a family member (whom the non-custodial parent lives with) or through a family services. The counselor reported it to CPS and they said there was nothing wrong with this. Can you advise me in my first step? I hope this helps. Not her father. What if the custodial parent never comes to get the child/children when they say they will or were on their way. Association of Family and Conciliation Courts. This is for your protection, her protection and the best interest of the child. Try it and see what happens. His paternal step-grandmother has had custody of him since he was 10 months old. I actually am trying to help you calm down so you dont lose custody. Your relationship with each other needs to be handled like a business relationship and you need to learn to get along and be flexible, collaborative and cooperative with each other. 3) Until there is a court order established there is not much you can do, but. So I was granted full sole legal and SOLE physical custody and father gets no visitations until he goes to court and pleads with judge. If you are looking for permanent restrictions the odds are it may not happen unless the matter never changes or escalates. Still other states will not apply the interference charge if the child is sixteen years of age or older and there are yet other states that will not file charges if the child is returned before the arrest warrant is issued. My ex and I have been divorced for 14 years. I had to file a missing persons report for our son once when she took off. Hey if it isnt in agreement or in court papers and wasnt agreed to in court that we dont have to do it right? all of this after seeing my children only 3 times in the past 2 years as she has refused to obey a court order. Then, he will either reply or your covered with plenty of notice. She can call the police, they will look at the court order and if the children do not want to go at that time they will not inforce it. Should I see the magistrate judge and take out a warrant? You may not agree with his decisions as he may not agree with yours. I have been in court in Arkansas 2-4 times a year over my case since 2008,so I have picked up a little knowledge. He works THIRD shift Friday and Saturday, and his mother works on Saturday night (He lives with her) They will NOT tell me anything about my child while he is there, nor tell me who is watching him while they are working. W. Hi. Oh God, I hope youre wrong. My husband had been denied his right to see his children by his ex for over SIX YEARS! He was ordered to pay child support and has done nothing but complain about that. The disruptive parent could be subject to a multitude of legal repercussions. Work with the domestic violence in the area where the child and mother are. Hes not scheduled to be back before 8pm on Sunday. Yes, i believe a child needs both parents, but its not always that simple. if you are talking about a teenager and your state gives weight to a custody preference, then the court would take this into consideration in a decision. 720 ILCS 5/10-5.5. You have an attorney and you know all the answers, so why are you on here spewing about him when he was good enough to be the father when you were together and now hes not? In my divorce papers it states the non custodial parent has to return the child back to the custodial parent which is me once visitation is done. 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